Résumés
Abstract
Friendship and social connections generally improve quality of life and well-being. However, research shows that people with intellectual disabilities face challenges forming and maintaining friendships. Disability support workers play an indispensable yet under-recognized role in developing friendships with people with intellectual disabilities. Because disability support workers are disproportionately immigrant women, as they facilitate the inclusion of their clients, they too experience social isolation. After conducting in-depth interviews with disability support workers living in Edmonton, Canada, for my master’s thesis project, I offer the following observations. First, staff and clients became friends with one another in part due to weak family ties and limited social networks. Second, relationships that felt genuine helped staff better understand their clients and gave the staff a deeper sense of purpose in life. Third, the context, environment, and frequency of meetings were essential for the development of friendships. Fourth, friendships among people both with and without disabilities were crucial for community development. Overall, based on these interviews I suggest that genuine friendships between people with intellectual disabilities and care workers can help foster a sense of belonging and are integral to community-building. My research also suggests that the meaning of friendship ought to be expanded beyond current understandings.
Keywords:
- Friendship,
- inclusion,
- people with intellectual disabilities,
- immigrant,
- care work
Résumé
L’amitié et les liens sociaux améliorent généralement la qualité de vie et le bien-être. Cependant, des recherches montrent que les personnes présentant une déficience intellectuelle ont du mal à nouer des liens et à entretenir des amitiés. Les travailleurs de soutien aux personnes handicapées jouent un rôle indispensable et pourtant méconnu dans le développement des amitiés avec les personnes présentant une déficience intellectuelle. Étant donné que les travailleurs de soutien aux personnes handicapées sont en grande partie des femmes immigrées, ces personnes connaissent elles aussi l’isolement social alors qu’elles facilitent l’inclusion de leurs clients. Après avoir mené des entretiens approfondis avec des travailleurs de soutien aux personnes handicapées vivant à Edmonton, au Canada, pour mon projet de mémoire de maîtrise, je propose les observations suivantes. Premièrement, les employés et les clients sont mutuellement devenus amis, en raison, en partie de la faiblesse des liens familiaux et des réseaux sociaux limités. Deuxièmement, les relations authentiques ont aidé les employés à mieux comprendre leurs clients et leur ont donné un sens à la vie plus profond. Troisièmement, le contexte, l’environnement et la fréquence des rencontres sont essentiels au développement des amitiés. Quatrièmement, les amitiés entre personnes handicapées et non-handicapées sont essentielles au développement de la communauté. Dans l’ensemble, à partir de ces entretiens, je suggère que les amitiés authentiques entre les personnes présentant une déficience intellectuelle et les travailleurs sociaux peuvent contribuer à favoriser un sentiment d’appartenance communautaire et font partie intégrante du développement de la communauté. Ma recherche suggère également que la signification de l’amitié devrait être élargie au-delà des conceptions actuelles.
Mots-clés :
- Amitié,
- inclusion,
- personnes ayant des déficiences intellectuelles,
- immigrant,
- travail de soins
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